Thelsea Johnson, Aaron Losey’s Mom

As I pause to reflect about Aaron and his new adventure, my heart smiles. Just 6 months ago, I remember a young boy struggling to find his peace in all the chaos. Aaron’s grades were falling, school was a chore and his siblings trying to cheer up Aaron sometimes was fruitless. Physically he thought he couldn’t do anything. Aaron was awkward, wanting to quit often. His self-respect was low, confidence absent. “I can’t” was part of his daily vocabulary. His ability to say on task very difficult. Often, I called his name over and over. He did not have a sense of responsibility to family or himself. Also, Aaron was having more trouble dealing with or thinking about all that was going on inside.

Since beginning martial arts, there have been many changes from inside to out. Physically he has more strength and coordination. Also, it usually takes one call and Aaron responds. When engaged in something which requires focus, I can actually see him redirecting his mind and even his body. His final grads reflect his ability. With his siblings, Aaron is patent and more understanding. One of the most exciting changes is the way he carries himself – shoulder back, chin up. Now he thinks “he can.”

Although his recent strides are impressive, I am sure Aaron has some growing inside to do. Respecting oneself and others is ongoing. One day he will realize how powerful he is. Aaron will be able to be confident that “he can” hold his own. He may even try new things. When going through difficult times, we hill find his strength inside. Physically, he will be in control of his body and understand his potential.